I don't quite get what "ever so slightly insulting afterthought" means here.

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Rebecca

An "afterthought" is something that is thought of later. It's something that hasn't been planned or considered earlier, so it's a combination of the words "after" and "thought." In this case, the speaker says that the man going to find her to talk about "love" is an "ever so slightly insulting afterthought" to mean that since he left the conversation until the last minute, it seems a bit insincere and is thus "slightly insulting." Ex: Almost as an afterthought, she thanked the salesperson for helping. Ex: As an afterthought, a small card was prepared along with the cake.

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1
Could you give me some expressions that can be used instead of "free of charge"?
Some synonyms for "free of charge" are "free" "complimentary" and "at no cost".

2
Is "whatever" a general expression? When do you use it? Could you give me some examples?
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What does "dish" refer to in this context?
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Does the phrase "play along" have a negative nuance? If I say "I will play along with him to win.", does that mean I will cooperate with him unwillingly?
Sometimes it can, but not in every scenario. In this scenario, it does have a negative nuance. Moana tells us that she will make herself happy by following the rules of her tribe. However, she knows that this won't make her happy, so it has a negative connotation. The sentence you asked about seems like a negative nuance. It would just depend on how it's said and the circumstances of why it's being said. From reading your example sentence, it sounds like it has a negative nuance and does mean I will cooperate with him unwillingly to win something. It can be challenging to pinpoint what "play along" phrases have positive connotations and which ones have negative connotations. I will give a couple of easy examples to give you an idea of what "play along" would look like with a positive nuance and a negative nuance. Ex: Fine, he wants to do this, then I'll play along. => negative nuance. Using "fine" is an indicator that the speaker is annoyed. Ex: Ooh, that sounds fun! I'll play along! => positive nuance. Using "ooh" shows us that the speaker is excited about something.

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