What does "hard way" mean?

Native speaker’s answer
Rebecca
The "hard way" means a challenging or difficult way. This phrase refers to a time where you experienced something negative and challenging to learn a lesson. Ex: I learned the hard way to not trust someone you meet on a blind date. Ex: We can do this the easy way, or the hard way. Take your pick. Ex: I learned the hard way not to leave the oven on for too long.