Definitions
- Describing excessive or insincere praise given to someone to gain favor or influence. - Referring to compliments or admiration that are not entirely genuine or sincere. - Talking about the act of praising someone to win their approval or affection.
- Referring to the act of trying to win someone's favor or approval through deliberate actions or behavior. - Describing the attempt to get someone to like or approve of you by doing things for them. - Talking about the act of trying to fit in or be accepted by a particular group or individual.
List of Similarities
- 1Both involve trying to win someone's favor or approval.
- 2Both can be used to manipulate or influence others.
- 3Both can be seen as insincere or disingenuous.
- 4Both are often used in social or professional settings.
- 5Both can be perceived negatively if overused or done excessively.
What is the difference?
- 1Method: Flattery involves giving compliments or praise, while ingratiation involves doing favors or behaving in a certain way to win someone's approval.
- 2Intention: Flattery is often used to gain something from someone, while ingratiation is more focused on building a relationship or connection.
- 3Timing: Flattery can be done before or after a request or favor, while ingratiation is usually done before a request or favor.
- 4Perception: Flattery can be seen as superficial or insincere, while ingratiation can be seen as manipulative or fake.
- 5Degree: Flattery can be mild or extreme, while ingratiation is usually more deliberate and calculated.
Remember this!
Flattery and ingratiation are both methods used to win someone's favor or approval. However, the difference between flattery and ingratiation is the method used and the intention behind it. Flattery involves giving compliments or praise to gain something from someone, while ingratiation involves doing favors or behaving in a certain way to build a relationship or connection.
