What context can I use each word in?
Learn when and how to use these words with these examples!
sympathised
Example
I sympathized with her when she told me about her struggles. [sympathized: past tense verb]
Example
He always sympathizes with his friends when they are going through a tough time. [sympathizes: present tense verb]
commiserate
Example
I went to commiserate with my friend after her pet died. [commiserate: verb]
Example
The group gathered to commiserate with the family after their loss. [commiserate: verb]
Good things to know
Which word is more common?
Sympathize is more commonly used than commiserate in everyday language.
What’s the difference in the tone of formality between sympathised and commiserate?
Commiserate is more formal than sympathize and is often used in professional or serious situations.