Why is the subject in where clause "you", not "I"?
Native speaker’s answer
Rebecca
Monica is using "you" instead of "I" because she wants Joey to understand what she has been going through from her point-of-view; to have Joey feel and understand what she is feeling. Saying "you" makes it more personal for the audience/listener. It gives the other person your perspective of something as if it is happening to them, even though it is happening to yourself. Ex: Have you ever had a moment where you just wanted to scream at someone? Ex: He is so frustrating! No matter what you do, nothing will ever be good enough for him.