What does it mean by "speak one's language" in this context?

Native speaker’s answer

Rebecca

To "speak one's language" doesn't necessarily mean to speak the same language or mother tongue, but rather, to speak or communicate in a way that your counterpart understands or reacts positively to. The speaker knows that the other girl is motivated by things like going to parties, so she easily gives up the snack to secure an invitation to a party. To speak another's language requires an understanding of the other person's preferences, desires, and motivations. Ex: A: How did you get your son to agree to study more? B: I promised to buy him a PS5. I just learned to speak his language. Ex: It's easy to compromise or make deals with others when you speak the same language.

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