When can I use "shame" like this meaning? "Sad" and "sorry", what are the different ways to use them?

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Rebecca

"Shame" in this context refers to something that is regretful or disappointing. "Shame" here is similar to being sad, however, "shame" implies that there is more regret or a guilt involved. "Shame" is usually used to describe the situation of someone else, while "sorry" is normally used to apologize for something. Ex: It's a shame that you can't go to the party on Friday. In this example, "shame" is similar to saying "I'm sad that you can't go to the party on Friday". The word "sorry" is more of a response in this case and would be normally used from the perspective of the other person, as in "I'm sorry I can't go to the party on Friday".

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