Why did he said "you" even if he is indicating himself?
Native speaker’s answer
Rebecca
Finn is saying "you" because it makes it easier to talk about the negative experience he encountered. It's a way of indicating that these kinds of negative experiences can happen to anyone while also reflecting on that negative experience yourself. Ex: You win some battles, you lose some battles. Ex: You just can't trust anyone these days. Ex: Love will tear you apart.