Why should we avoid being emotional when making a decision?

Native speaker’s answer

Rebecca

Because if you're making a decision based on emotions, those emotions will affect the outcome. So if you take it personally or respond in anger, outrage, or another strong emotion, the results may not be the most beneficial. It's best to make decisions looking from all points of view and not just your own so that it's as objective as possible. It also shows good business and leadership skills if you respond in a controlled and calm way so that others might remain calm too, and you can think clearly.

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06/17

1
What's "caught up" mean?
To be "caught up" in something means to be involved in a situation involuntarily. It can also mean giving too much of your attention to something, or it can mean that you've shared recent updates with someone and "caught them up" with what's going on. Ex: I caught up with Jane this weekend over coffee. Ex: I got so caught up in the situation that I forgot to ask how you were doing. Ex: Don't get caught up in any drama.

2
Does "look" have a meaning of asking for agreement in this case?
Actually "look" is being used as an exclamation here. Specifically, when we use "look" in this way, it is to call attention to what the speaker is going to say. So he wants her to pay attention to the fact that he doesn't want to fight or hurt her. Ex: Look, you need to pay attention. Ex: Look, I don't think this relationship is going to work.

3
What's this line mean?
This line means that this person who he now loves is more than someone to just tell his secrets to. If it were a short-term or less serious relationship, one might end up sharing secrets and being vulnerable, but he wants to do more than just that with her. Ex: I want someone not just to tell my secrets to. I want a deeper relationship than that. Ex: I found an outfit that I can wear not just for the wedding, but also for the party next month.

4
Why did she put "the" between "after" and "you"?
Ah! This is a character trait or "quirk." A "quirk" is a peculiar habit. If you look at some other parts of the clip, she uses "the" before quite a few nouns that don't require articles within the context. Such as "kindness," which is an abstract noun here. It's not grammatically correct, but the purpose is to make the character fun! Ex: After you! => grammatically correct Ex: I will tie them to a chair in the basement with kindness. => grammatically correct = I will tie them to a chair in the basement with the kindness. => grammatically incorrect

5
Why would he say "but" in this context? What does it mean?
So, here, the phrase "but one" means "only one"! However, usually, this phrase means "except for" one or whatever amount. Here it's also been used for dramatic effect. Ex: There are but two activities we haven't done yet. = We've done all the activities except for two so far. = There are only two activities we haven't done yet. Ex: There is but one thing I'd like to say to you... => just one thing to say

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