What does "this thing" in the lyrics refer to?
Native speaker’s answer
Rebecca
"This thing" can refer to a habit one has, usually shown in past experiences. So here, she's saying that she has this constant habit, proven by past experience and situations, where she gets older but not wiser! Ex: I have this thing where I bite my nails when I'm nervous. Ex: She has this thing where she doesn't respond to anyone when she's overwhelmed.