What's "cross" mean here?

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Rebecca

A "cross to carry" is a burden or responsibility that one must endure or handle on their own. It's an idiomatic expression that is often used when one wants to express that their difficulties cannot be shared or helped by others. "I gotta carry my cross without you" here is also expressing this idea, that he alone can carry this burden. Ex: I don't want to take out a loan to pay my hospital bills, but it's my cross to carry. Ex: That old man has his own cross to carry. He was the only one out of his family to survive the war.

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Isn't it supposed to put "however" at the front of the sentence? Why does it come in the middle of the sentence?
"However" can be placed in the middle of a sentence like it is here (between two commas) to "interrupt" the sentence and imply that what was said before "however" contrasts what was said in a previous sentence or in the rest of the sentence. Another way however can be placed in the middle of a sentence is to combine two sentences that contrast. If "however" is used in this way, it needs to be proceeded with a semicolon (;) and followed by a comma. Ex: Autumn is my favorite season; however, I also like spring. ("However" used to combine contrasting sentences) Ex: I usually wear makeup, however, I am not wearing any today. ("However" used to imply contrast in a sentence) Ex: I love camping. What I don't like about camping, however, is the bugs. ("However" used to contrast what was said in a previous sentence)

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What does "even" mean here?
In this video, "even" is used to emphasize her statements. In the similar context, "even" is commonly used to emphasize anger, severity, or surprise. Ex: Don't even think about it. Ex: He has never even heard of Jennifer Anniston! Ex: You don't even have a chance of winning the lottery.

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What does "death-defying" mean? Could you give me some examples?
If something is "death-defying," it means that it is very dangerous! Ex: He had a death-defying experience in his 20s. => a dangerous and close to death experience Ex: Her courage was death-defying. There wasn't anything she wouldn't do to fight for the cause. => willing to do dangerous things Ex: Racing in motorsports is death-defying. You have to be a professional and train well to do it.

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When can I use the expression "seek healthcare"?
To "seek healthcare" means to search for, find, or have a need for care related to your health. It is a more formal way of saying "see a doctor" or "find medical advice". This expression can be used when referring to someone needing medical help like needing to go to the doctor, or it can be used to refer to people who are searching for a new doctor or some other form of care related to their health. This expression is very formal and less common to use in everyday conversations. It is a common expression in politics. Ex: Many people seek healthcare, but cannot afford it. Ex: If you start to have negative symptoms, seek a healthcare professional immediately.

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What's the difference between "memorial service" and "funeral?"
A "funeral service" and a "memorial service" are similar. They are both services to honour the deceased. However, a "funeral" is when the body is present during the service, a "memorial service" is when the body is not present. Ex: That was a beautiful memorial service. My great aunt would have loved the stories told. Ex: It was hard to see the casket at the funeral service. But it was good to be there.

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