Why do you always put the first person(=the speaker) at the end whenever you list multiple people in order?

Native speaker’s answer

Rebecca

From what I understand, the main reason is that it's polite! But it's used so much that it's considered grammatically and formally correct. Ex: My mother and I went to the shops to get ingredients for dinner tonight. => subjects of the sentence Ex: You can work on the project with John and me. => objects of the sentence. Ex: Me and Laura stayed up so late. => incorrect use of "me" instead of "I" and impolite form. However, this is a common mix-up!

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Is "in" necessary in this sentence? What does refer to?
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Does the word "altitude" refer to the character's height? Is it a common expression?
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Is "I can't hear myself speak" a usual expression? What does it mean?
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What does "thick" mean in this context? It seems it means more than thickness!
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