Why does she say "seem to" even though she's talking about herself?
"Seem" is not only used to express situations of uncertainty. When someone says that they "can't seem to [something]," it means that they tried and failed to do something they should be able to do. In this song, Billie Eilish has used this expression to state that she tried and failed to focus. The difference between "can't seem to" and "can't" is that "seem" is often used to make a statement sound softer or less direct. Ex: I can't seem to reverse park no matter how much I practice. Ex: I can't seem to make friends easily.
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