这里的flatter是什么意思?

母语人士的回答
Rebecca
Flatter意味着奉承或说取悦他人的话。很难说你是在胡说八道还是真的在赞美,因为你不知道这个场景之前到底发生了什么。示例: She flattered me with compliments. But I knew it was just to try and get the dirt I had on her. (她恭维我,但我知道我只是想摆脱她的差评。) => 这里dirt意味着破坏性的信息或谣言 示例: His speech was flattering. I appreciated what he said about me and hadn't heard him say those things before. (他的讲话让我耸了耸肩。我很感激他告诉我关于我的事,我从来没有听他这么说。)