I believe the word "polite" and "formal" are similar in many ways. But somehow, I also feel that there are some differences between these words. Could you please tell me the differences?

Native speaker’s answer
Rebecca
Yes, you're right! They are similar but also different. One can be "polite" in an "informal" setting. Being "polite" means doing things in a way that pleases people or considers them, whereas "formal" means a professional or official way of doing things. Ex: We were told to dress formally for the wedding. So I wore a black suit. Ex: Your little boy is very polite, he opened the door for me! Ex: Remember, it's polite to say "thank you" when you receive your birthday present at auntie Jane's. Ex: The business meeting was very formal. We signed a contract with another company!